{On August 20, 2014 I posted this on Facebook.} Yesterday my best friend died. I have had plenty of time to beg, plead, and hope for God’s healing hand to rest upon my dad. But now it is Job’s words that rests upon my lips: “The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”So now it is time to CELEBRATE. Let us celebrate a man who honored, worshipped, and trusted God. Let us celebrate a Christ-follower who boldly shared his faith. Let us celebra

Dad sat at the edge of the couch with his eyes tightly closed. He was using what little energy he had just to keep his frail, 135 pound body, upright.  I wrapped my arms around the sides of his chest, my fingers sinking deep between the ridges of his rib cage. Tears consumed my ability to see. Just over 365 days ago dad was a healthy, robust, 69-year-old man. Life was surging through his veins as he looked forward to his next decade of life.  He and mom were planning new adve

Today is March 25th. For most of you, today will routinely tick by. It will be another day of overcommitted schedules, complex decision making, and trying to discover the answer to the oppressive and reoccurring question, “What’s for dinner?” For Kim and me, March 25th is a much different day. Caden, our son, would have turned 11 today.  (If you are not familiar with our story, you can watch this short six-minute video here.) As I was praying this morning, God kept shoving in

Jud Wilhite kicked off a new series this weekend at Central Christian Church titled, TORN.  The focus of this series is the book of Job.  Several weeks ago Kim and I had the opportunity to share our story.  Our hope and prayer is that our story, will help others in their life journey. Trethewey Life Story. from David Tate on Vimeo. God gives and takes away. One couple shares about the blessings and the struggles in their journey. #death #grief #celebration #life #Trethewey