I am not sure if you are aware of this, but Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. And for millions of people, today is filled with chaotic shopping, last-minute phone calls ordering flowers, searching for that perfect card from depleted card racks, and searching for a restaurant that still has dinner reservation availability. For Kim and me, it will be a boring, mundane, and normal day.  Why? We take Valentine’s Day off.  It is a decision that we made over sixteen years ago.  Why? I c

The Journey: Tomorrow Kim and I will be married 16 years. Where has time gone? I also realized today that if you take our 16 years of marriage and add to it the 4 1/2 years that we dated, we have been together more than twenty years. That means we have been together over half the time we have been alive. We have had mountain top experiences together and we have had some very dark moments. There has been times where life was stagnant, moving at mundane speeds. Through it all,